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Surrounded by Vampires

Thomas Erikson

Psixologiya

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1-dars namunasi

1. How to Spot an Energy Vampire (1/2)

Bu bo'limda muallif hammamiz boshdan o'tkazgan bir holat haqida gapirvotti. Ba'zi kunla hech narsa o'xshamaydi, ba'zi kunla esa hammasi o'z-o'zidan ketvotti. Ilhom keladi, g'oyala qaynaydi, dunyo seniki bo'p turadi. Lekin o'n daqiqa o'tmay hammasi yo'q bo'p qoladi. Kuch ketadi, rejala imkonsizdek ko'rinadi. Nimaga? Muallif javobi oddiy: sen energiya vampiriga (energy vampire) duch kelding.

Energiya vampiri bu atrofidagi odamlarning kuchini, ishonchini, xohishini so'rib oladigan odam. Uni ruhiy vampir (psychic vampire) yoki hissiy vampir (emotional vampire) ham deyishadi. Muallif misolla keltiradi: har gapingga xato topadigan odam; kasalxonadan kelsang, "man bundan battar kasal bo'lganman" deb gapni o'ziga buradigan tanish; rejasiz ulkan loyiha berib, savol bersang "negativ bo'p qolding" deydigan boshliq; devor ortidan kesatib gapiradigan qo'shni. Muallifning o'zi ham orzu qilgan uyini olganini do'stiga aytsa, u faqat "A, shunaqami?" deb gapni boshqa yoqqa burgan. Bitta gap bilan butun quvonchni so'ndirish mumkin ekan.

Natijada yaxshi g'oyang "keyinroq" degan javonga tashlanadi, ko'pincha umuman qaytmaydi. Ba'zi vampirla buni ataylab qiladi, boshqalarni yerga urib o'zini katta his qiladi. Boshqalari esa chinni do'konidagi fildek, bilmasdan zarar yetkazadi. Ertakdagi vampir nima qilvotganini biladi, hayotdagisi esa har doim ham bilmaydi.

Yana bir muhim fikr: har kim energiyani har xil yo'qotadi. Kimdir kichkina tortishuvdan charchab qoladi, boshqasi aksincha jonlanib ketadi. Kimdir kutishni yomon ko'radi, boshqasiga farqi yo'q. Bir xil vaziyat, lekin reaksiyala har xil.

Asosiy tushunchalar

Energiya vampiri (energy vampire)
Atrofidagi odamlarning kuchini, ishonchini va xohishini so'rib oladigan odam. Masalan, sen yangi ish ochmoqchi bo'lsang, "bo'lmaydi, pulingni kuydirasan" deb darrov ruhingni tushiradigan tanish.
Ruhiy yoki hissiy vampir (psychic / emotional vampire)
Energiya vampirining boshqa nomlari. Uchalasi ham bitta narsani bildiradi: odamdan quvonch va motivatsiyani olib qo'yadigan kishi.
Ijobiy oqim (positive flow)
Hamma narsa o'z-o'zidan ketvotgan, ilhom va kuch to'lib turgan holat. Xuddi imtihonga yaxshi tayyorlanib, hamma savolga javob bilib turgandek.
G'oyala ombori ("Ideas for the Future")
Vampir ruhingni tushirgandan keyin g'oyani "keyinroq qilaman" deb chetga surib qo'yish. Ko'pincha u g'oya umuman qaytmaydi.
Har xil reaksiya
Bir xil vaziyat har kimga har xil ta'sir qiladi. Masalan, bozorda savdolashish kimnidir charchatadi, kimnidir esa jonlantiradi.

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Mundarija

Title Page1 dars
  1. Title Page
Copyright Notice1 dars
  1. Copyright Notice
Introduction: The Time I Almost Gave Up1 dars
  1. Introduction: The Time I Almost Gave Up
1. How to Spot an Energy Vampire2 dars
  1. 1. How to Spot an Energy Vampire (1/2)
  2. 1. How to Spot an Energy Vampire (2/2)
2. The Perfectionist, an Annoyingly Common Variety6 dars
  1. 2. The Perfectionist, an Annoyingly Common Variety (1/6)
  2. 2. The Perfectionist, an Annoyingly Common Variety (2/6)
  3. 2. The Perfectionist, an Annoyingly Common Variety (3/6)
  4. 2. The Perfectionist, an Annoyingly Common Variety (4/6)
  5. 2. The Perfectionist, an Annoyingly Common Variety (5/6)
  6. 2. The Perfectionist, an Annoyingly Common Variety (6/6)
3. Drama Queens Who Demand Red Carpets5 dars
  1. 3. Drama Queens Who Demand Red Carpets (1/5)
  2. 3. Drama Queens Who Demand Red Carpets (2/5)
  3. 3. Drama Queens Who Demand Red Carpets (3/5)
  4. 3. Drama Queens Who Demand Red Carpets (4/5)
  5. 3. Drama Queens Who Demand Red Carpets (5/5)
4. The Bully, an Unstoppable Tyrant4 dars
  1. 4. The Bully, an Unstoppable Tyrant (1/4)
  2. 4. The Bully, an Unstoppable Tyrant (2/4)
  3. 4. The Bully, an Unstoppable Tyrant (3/4)
  4. 4. The Bully, an Unstoppable Tyrant (4/4)
5. Passive-Aggressive People: Fists in Pockets5 dars
  1. 5. Passive-Aggressive People: Fists in Pockets (1/5)
  2. 5. Passive-Aggressive People: Fists in Pockets (2/5)
  3. 5. Passive-Aggressive People: Fists in Pockets (3/5)
  4. 5. Passive-Aggressive People: Fists in Pockets (4/5)
  5. 5. Passive-Aggressive People: Fists in Pockets (5/5)
6. The Eternal Victim Who Demands Constant Attention5 dars
  1. 6. The Eternal Victim Who Demands Constant Attention (1/5)
  2. 6. The Eternal Victim Who Demands Constant Attention (2/5)
  3. 6. The Eternal Victim Who Demands Constant Attention (3/5)
  4. 6. The Eternal Victim Who Demands Constant Attention (4/5)
  5. 6. The Eternal Victim Who Demands Constant Attention (5/5)
7. Narcissists: The Greatest, the Best, and the Most Beautiful4 dars
  1. 7. Narcissists: The Greatest, the Best, and the Most Beautiful (1/4)
  2. 7. Narcissists: The Greatest, the Best, and the Most Beautiful (2/4)
  3. 7. Narcissists: The Greatest, the Best, and the Most Beautiful (3/4)
  4. 7. Narcissists: The Greatest, the Best, and the Most Beautiful (4/4)
8. A Few Less Serious but Nonetheless Annoying Types12 dars
  1. 8. A Few Less Serious but Nonetheless Annoying Types (1/12)
  2. 8. A Few Less Serious but Nonetheless Annoying Types (2/12)
  3. 8. A Few Less Serious but Nonetheless Annoying Types (3/12)
  4. 8. A Few Less Serious but Nonetheless Annoying Types (4/12)
  5. 8. A Few Less Serious but Nonetheless Annoying Types (5/12)
  6. 8. A Few Less Serious but Nonetheless Annoying Types (6/12)
  7. 8. A Few Less Serious but Nonetheless Annoying Types (7/12)
  8. 8. A Few Less Serious but Nonetheless Annoying Types (8/12)
  9. 8. A Few Less Serious but Nonetheless Annoying Types (9/12)
  10. 8. A Few Less Serious but Nonetheless Annoying Types (10/12)
  11. 8. A Few Less Serious but Nonetheless Annoying Types (11/12)
  12. 8. A Few Less Serious but Nonetheless Annoying Types (12/12)
9. A Survey of the Four Colors7 dars
  1. 9. A Survey of the Four Colors (1/7)
  2. 9. A Survey of the Four Colors (2/7)
  3. 9. A Survey of the Four Colors (3/7)
  4. 9. A Survey of the Four Colors (4/7)
  5. 9. A Survey of the Four Colors (5/7)
  6. 9. A Survey of the Four Colors (6/7)
  7. 9. A Survey of the Four Colors (7/7)
In Closing2 dars
  1. In Closing (1/2)
  2. In Closing (2/2)
References1 dars
  1. References
Index1 dars
  1. Index
Praise Page1 dars
  1. Praise Page
Also by Thomas Erikson1 dars
  1. Also by Thomas Erikson
About the Author1 dars
  1. About the Author
Newsletter Sign-up1 dars
  1. Newsletter Sign-up
Copyright1 dars
  1. Copyright

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